Welcome.

You may be facing one of the most stressful and vulnerable times in your life. Your marriage is ending, or you're navigating custody or agreement issues that have resurfaced. How you move through this emotionally charged process matters deeply. Every interaction, every word spoken or unspoken to the people who hold power over your future, must be approached with care and strategy.

Your ability to stay calm, clear, and expansive—rather than reactive, confused, or overwhelmed—can be shaped by the support you receive. Coaching during this time isn’t just helpful; it’s transformative. I work alongside your legal counsel to help you move through this process with dignity, clarity, and purpose. Together, we can turn this painful moment into one of growth and healing—for you and for those you love.

I know firsthand how disorienting and damaging the family court system in California can be. My children and I lived through it. And I’ve since dedicated my life to helping others avoid the mistakes I made—offering wisdom, perspective, and unwavering support.

I make the job of your legal team easier by ensuring you show up strong, calm, and collected. I help you be seen in the best possible light, so you won’t look back with regret or heartbreak. I provide the steady, laser-focused guidance that helps you rise above the chaos and confusion, never losing sight of what truly matters: your future, your peace, your children’s well-being.

True healing and long-term peace require us to think beyond the moment. Financial clarity, emotional strength, and the health of your relationships—especially with your children—must guide our actions.

When I went through my own divorce, I had a therapist, a lawyer, a mediator, friends, family, and a church community. But what I needed most was an older, wiser version of myself—Krista. I needed to trust my instincts, not the discordant voices amplified by my trauma. That’s what I offer you now.

I can work with you, your ex-spouse, your children, your attorney—anyone involved in the process. Because when one person changes, the whole dynamic can shift. And beauty can indeed come from ashes.

My son Riley, my best friend and coaching partner, often shares his own wisdom. After a recent swim in the ocean near our home in Santa Barbara, he reminded me of something profound:

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This is the heart of our spiritual practice—and our coaching philosophy. We win when love wins. We rise, not in noise or conflict, but in grace and strength. We help you respond instead of react, to hold your ground without aggression, and to stand tall with elegance.

If you’re ready to do the impossible, to become like water in the midst of fire, reach out. Let’s walk this path together.

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